Here it is again – time to make snowflakes!

Need a Snow Day?

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Parents . . .this just may help you understand your teen!

This link will take you to an excellent article on how the teen brain develops and how extra-ordinary your teen really is!

http://ngm.nationalgeographic.com/2011/10/teenage-brains/dobbs-text

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EMDR Information

You can now find 3 Utube Video links on the website CatawbaCounseling.com. These will give you a fuller understanding of how EMDR works and the benefits of this process.

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Depression does not equal weakness . . .

Another post submitted by a strong person willing to share a personal struggle.

“Depression is not a sign of weakness, it is a sign that you have been trying to be strong for too long.”
I found this statement in an article and it struck me so strongly I thought I needed to take the time to explore it and what it means to me. In my recent experiences in trying group therapy, I have found that it is really important to explore how I feel. We always start our group with what is called a check-in. The first thing we are supposed to say is how we feel in that moment. It is interesting to sit there and truly listen to my mind and body and verbalize my emotions. What is great about being in that safe space is that it is completely okay to have negative emotions. There is no expectation to be strong. I simply say how I feel and then the next person shares. Being that the main reason I am in counseling and group therapy is for depression and anxiety symptoms, this quote struck a chord with me. One of the symptoms of depression that I experience is guilt for even being depressed in the first place. I often judge myself, thinking “if you were just stronger you could get over this and move on.” Having this insecurity acknowledged in this statement is such a relief. A friend of mine said it felt like a weight had been lifted from her shoulders when she read it. I feel it is as if I have finally been validated that I HAVE been strong and I HAVE tried really hard to beat depression. The thing is I can only be as strong as my body and mind are. I came to a point in time when I could no longer put on the “face” as I call it, acting like everything was okay and only allowing myself to feel my pain when I was alone. I felt so weak and disappointed in myself. But after years of dealing with depression, I think I have learned to believe that sometimes things are out of my control. There are situational and biological reasons why I struggle with depression and anxiety. Trying to be strong for everyone else and for myself only lead me to become so tired, so very tired. I now believe (most days) that depression is NOT a weakness. Depression is something that I cannot conquer or push away just by acting strong, I need to regain my strength. It is okay to run out of strength. It is okay to ask for help and to experience your emotions. I have hope of regaining my strength. I will hit setbacks and I will have times when I believe I am weak. But now I have this quote to think about and remember it says that I HAVE been strong and may just need some help to regain that strength. Remember, YOU ARE STRONG.

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Dreams Are Whispers

Enjoy this brief inspirational video http://www.flickspire.com/m/iaaw/DreamsAreWhispers

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A Lesson in Mindfulness

The following is a creative piece by a young woman who describes mindfulness beautifully!

So it may already be time to rake the leaves that have fallen thus far, but I bet there are still some yet to fall to the ground. Personally, I love fall. When I see the colors bursting into life on trees as I pass by, it sends a warm feeling through me. For one, I love yellow, orange, and red but beyond that, I think those colors combined on the trees and on the ground, creating a blanket of warmth and vibrancy, is a welcome change from the typical green leaves of summer. In addition to the colors, the crispness in the air that accompanies the coming of fall is such a relief after the stale air of summer.
To delve deeper I bring you a quote I saw by Elizabeth Lawrence*, “Everyone must take time to sit and watch the leaves turn.” I was drawn to this quote because I do have a positive emotional reaction to the crisp air and beautiful colors of fall which is what I think Elizabeth is saying. Part of what makes me feel a sense of calm is the opportunity to see something that has been stagnant for months seem to come alive. The colors that arrive with fall are just that, lively and exciting. I completely agree with what Elizabeth was saying. It is so important to be mindful of the changes around us and when it is something beautiful such as the change of a season, we can not only watch it but experience it. I feel the crisp air when I leave for work in the morning. I hear the rustle of the leaves in the wind and the crackle underfoot. I see the beautiful colors and they seem to send warmth through me. All my senses are affected in a positive way by the arrival of fall and this ties right into what I’ve been learning in counseling. I have been given tools to use when I am feeling overwhelmed by thoughts and emotions and one of these tools is to be mindful of what is around me and to use my senses to help me. I think following Elizabeth’s advice to stop and “watch the leaves turn” is an excellent way to practice mindfulness and self-sooth when I am having a difficult moment because it can be experienced through my senses. It reminds me that I am in the here and now, that life is going on around me, and that things can change and do change. I’m learning I can choose to be a part of that change and look to the world around me for encouragement. Stop and enjoy the leaves and see if they give you the warmth that I experience.
*“Elizabeth’s desire and passion was to garden and writing about gardening was what she knew best.” http://www.winghavengardens.com/ElizabethLawrence.asp

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Dyed Hair Helps Banish The Blues

Check out this article By Richard Watts about a mother who brings attention to suicide prevention in a unique way.

http://www.timescolonist.com/life/fashion-beauty/Dyed+hair+helps+banish+blues/5525258/story.html

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From a personal perspective . . .

This post was submitted by a young adult dealing with symptoms from depression and anxiety with the hope of encouraging other’s while sharing her story about . . .

Mental Health in Today’s Culture

Today there are a lot of popular web-based mental health causes. To Write Love on Her Arms, Love is Louder, and Active Minds are advocacy organizations focused on spreading the word about mental health and trying to reduce the stigma surrounding mental health disorders and concerns. I have “liked” these organizations on my Facebook account and look at their posts daily. I find news articles, advocacy materials, personal stories, events, and inspirational stories. This is a comfortable and low stress way to educate myself about mental health and continue to spread the word to others. I have begun to re-post some of the links I find and I credit these types of organizations for my ability to post mental health related materials without being embarrassed or scared of what people may think. Yes, I have the mental health illnesses of depression and anxiety and I am trying to help myself and others who are struggling as well.
What I find fascinating about these causes using the internet as a platform is not only that it is now an excellent way to spread information quickly but also the enormous response it generates. Sure, there are those who will post very negative comments on these sites or on Facebook. There are those who will criticize the cause and those who are diagnosed with mental health. To some people, mental health is not a “disease” and those of us who have been diagnosed with mental health disorders are said to be weak, crazy, unchristian, or looking for attention. I believe there will always be people who will only see the negative and criticize others no matter the subject. So I would invite you to join me in looking past those comments and focus on the incredible response of people who understand and identify with what is being said. So many people are desperate for someone to understand them when they are battling a mental illness. A common characteristic in these illnesses is a sense of going through it alone. TWLOHA’s slogan per say is that everyone has a story and each person’s story matters and is important to be shared. The response to this is a growing collection of stories of people surviving against the odds, pursuing a life worth living even in the face of what often seems insurmountable. People’s stories inspire me to continue on when my illness is telling me to quit trying. The person sharing the story also feels empowered by their ability to share honestly and then receive a positive response. I like to remember the simple fact that my story may help someone else and at the same time, I can receive encouragement in my own struggle.
So share your story. Post on one of these sites or on Facebook. Post somewhere you can be anonymous if you want. Your story doesn’t have to have a name to it to be inspiring. Give your struggle some purpose if you are having a hard time understanding what the purpose is of having to go through this time. If you don’t want to share, which is fine by the way, do some surfing on the web. See what resources are out there and connect to the mental health community. I hope you find it as helpful and inspiring as I do.
Anonymous

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Fall-ing back into a Rhythm

As my most recent newsletter states, Falling back into rhythm can be a struggle, but not impossible. Check out articles in this newsletter on my website: CatawbaCounseling.com !

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May is National Mental Health Awareness Month

Check out the following website for more Mental Health information. http://www.takementalhealthtoheart.com/

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